I've added a little poll on the left panel so if u have time, plz drop a response!! Interested to know how would u guys react. haha..

I was thinking thru these days (probably becos i'm too free and there's nothing much to think about =x ) and i observed several things that u will go thru after a breakup:

1. Sadness (obviously..)
Of cos everyone has feelings, so gers will definitely cry right? I'm not so sure for guys yet.. although tv drama do show that guys cry.. haha. Sometimes, people jus couldnt accept the fact that they are being dumped.. And most of the time, u couldnt accept the fact becos the person nv give u a valid reason for breakup.

2. Miss
After the broke up, u begin to miss the person. Furthermore, u probably couldnt contact or see the person so the "missing" feeling will get the worst of u.

3. Ill
So.. u'll start to eat less and probably get less nutrients and ur body start to feel weak. Sometimes u may even fell ill and hope that u can gain some attention from him/her.

4. Lethargic
At the same time, u lose interest in the things around u.. feeling lethargic.

5. Energy
So.. rather than dwelling on the sad things, u will start to divert ur energy onto other things so that u will have less time to think about him/her. Over time, u may not think about the person that often and u may begin to realise that u may not remember his/her looks clearly.

After being thru everything, it will bring a SMILE onto ur face as u have become stronger. Like what's in "Cape No. 7" - believe that there's a rainbow after the rain (:

Hope this will motivate people around me!!